Law of Attraction: What's Wrong With Big Dreams?

Copyright (c) 2008 Rebecca Hansonthem.
Recently, a student phoned to ask me thisLast summer, I received a great lesson in timing
question, "What's wrong with having big dreams?"and development. It happened about two months
"Nothing," I replied. "Why do you ask?"after I moved into my new condo. The developer
"Well, my friends are all telling me my dreams arebegan landscaping the ground between my condo
impossible and I just want to know if I canand the one next to mine. Every morning I sat by
attract them into my life."my living room window to watch the progress.
"Tell me," I asked, "what are these big dreams?"First they brought in big machinery to scrape
"I want to win the lottery, inherit a lot of moneyaway the dirt which had been covering up a
or find a rich man," was her quick response.cement tunnel connecting the two underground
"Oh, you want to be 'rescued'," I observed.parking lots. Once the cement was exposed and
"No, I'm not that way. I don't need to becleaned thoroughly, a layer of tar was applied.
rescued." Her voice faltered over the wordNext, a crew of men applied a layer of tar paper,
"rescued."followed by strips of something that looked like
"No?" I replied. "Listen to what you just told me.asphalt shingles on a big roll. On top of the asphalt
You said your big dreams were to: win theshingles the men spread a layer of gravel and
lottery, inherit a lot of money, and find a rich man.finally they laid down rubber strips. THEN the
Which one is not being rescued?"developer began the task of bringing in the dirt,
My student was quiet for a few moments as thefollowed by trees and shrubs and grass. It took
realization sunk in deeper that she had beenover a month to complete this piece of
looking for an answer outside herself -- a rescuer.landscaping.
There is nothing wrong with dreaming big dreamsDid the landscaper who designed the layout of
like:this piece of earth have a dream, a vision? Yes
--I want to become a millionaireshe did! What would have happened if she had
--I want to own a nation-wide chain oftaken a shortcut and left out one of these steps?
restaurants (or auto parts stores).More than likely, the underground parking lots
--I want to be a famous author.would now be underground streams of running
Each of these dreams can come true, if you arewater. Everything that might have been planted
willing to do the foot-work. To be a famousabove the parking lots would need to be removed
author, you must write a book. To own aand the whole process done properly. The cost to
nation-wide chain of anything, you must begin withremediate (fix) the shortcut would have more
one and learn the industry well. To become athan doubled the cost of doing it right the first
millionaire, you must know what you enjoy doingtime.
and do it well, noticing each opportunity the LawAre you starting to get the picture?
of Attraction brings your way as you climb theYes, dream big. Discover what you truly love to
"stairway to heaven."do. Learn everything about it. Practice doing it until
Now, you may be wondering if there is ayou can do it with your eyes closed. Expect the
difference between old-fashioned hard work andLaw of Attraction to guide you to and through
using Law of Attraction if you still have to do theeach lesson you need to learn so you CAN be the
work. Good question!millionaire, the famous author or whatever you
You have been born for a purpose. There's acame forth to be and do. The Law of Attraction
reason you have shown up on earth at this time.will make your journey to the top as easy as
The Law of Attraction helps you recognize justpossible; and it will make sure you receive all the
what that purpose is by letting you experiencefinancial, physical, emotional and mental support
"contrast". Contrast teaches you what is not inyou need as you grow and develop. It must do
alignment with your purposes while letting youso, it is the Law.
experience "excitement, joy and fulfillment," all ofIf you have been focusing on being rescued, as
which teach you what is in alignment with yourmy student was, take a few moments to write
purpose in this life time. As you follow yourdown what you'd use the million dollars for. What
heart's desires, you develop into the person youwould you do with an inheritance? What if you
were born to be.had all the financial security (assurance) you
Every desire, every dream, every imagination ofneeded--what would you do? Who would you be?
who you could be and what you could do comesStart your answer with something like, "If I had
with its own unique blueprint. This blueprint includesmy way, I'd be doing..." or, "If I had my way, I'd
the lessons to be learned along the way tobecome..." Your answer is a clue to your purpose
becoming "a millionaire", a "famous author", oron earth. Write it down. Keep it in your line of
anything else you want to become. The blueprintvision. Be willing to do the work and the work will
also knows the timing of events that must occurbe meaningful and fulfilling.
for you to recognize your purposes and achieve