Joining a Gang: How to Help Kids Prevent it, How to Tell if They've Joined One, How to Help Them Out

While youth gangs are nothing new -- they'vedrug trades)How to Keep Your Kids Away From
been traced back to the early 19th century -- theGangsSince most kids who join gangs do so
demographic of a youth gang is something that isbecause they are looking for a social network, for
constantly changing. Many people stereotype ganga group to belong to, ensuring that your child gets
members as urban, inner city males from racialplenty of love and support at home and through
minorities, but in fact gangs are a problem inpositive activities is key in keeping them away
suburbs as well as cities, for all races and for girlsfrom gangs.Such was the case with David Danisa,
as well as boys.There are about 750,000 ganga young man who could have easily fallen prey to
members in the United States, according togangs himself as friends around him joined
estimates by the U.S. Department of Justice, andsteadily. Instead, Danisa and friend Jurell Spivey
one-third of them are under the age of 18. Andjoined school programs and even got involved into
while it's still true that men account for thekeeping younger kids out of gangs."There's a lot
majority of gang members-more than 90 percentof pressures in high school," says Danisa. "If you
are male-gang membership among women ishave people who are helping you out in programs,
becoming increasingly common.What Exactly is ayou start having more self-respect. You can fight
Gang?Every gang has its own requirements andthrough the hard stuff." And, to put is simply,
characteristics, but the U.S. Department of Justiceafter your day gets filled up with sports,
says that all gangs have one thing in common: "Avolunteering and other activities, "You don't have
group must be involved in a pattern of criminaltime to do anything bad," Danisa said.Aside from
acts to be considered a youth gang."Similarly, theenrolling your kids in community or school youth
Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) defines aprograms from an early age, the following tips
gang as, "A criminal enterprise having ancan also help:* Encourage your child to think
organizational structure, acting as a continuingindependently* Take an active interest in his/her
criminal conspiracy, which employs violence andlife: Be involved!* Get to know your child's friends
any other criminal activity to sustain theand encourage healthy friendships* Teach your
enterprise."Additionally, gangs typically:* Developchild coping strategies to deal with hard times*
around racial and ethnic lines* Are typicallySupport your child with words and actions to instill
male-dominated with some female members,in them a sense of self-esteem and personal
though female gangs are on the increase* Centerresponsibility* Discourage too much exposure to
on a specific territory* Act as an organization thatmedia influences that glorify drugs, sex, gangs and
may be part of a larger group* Display symbolsviolence to kidsResources That Can HelpIf you
associated with their gang through clothing,suspect your child, friend or family member is in a
tattoos, graffiti, hand signals and languageWhy dogang and in need of help, there are many
Kids Join Gangs?According to a White House factresources available. First, according to the Los
sheet for the new youth initiative aimed atAngeles' County Sheriff's Department:* The
protecting America's youth from gangs, anmember must think and believe that they can get
overwhelming number of violent U.S. criminals likeout of the gang, and must want to do it.* Reduce
those in gangs grow up in single-motherthe amount of time spent with the gang. It's best
households with no father around. It's also beento do so gradually, rather than trying to sever all
shown that kids who are involved with theirties immediately.* Replace gang activities with
family, school and community are less likely to bepositive activities like sports, the arts,
involved in risky behavior like joining a gang.Thisemployment, religion, education, volunteering, etc.*
may explain why, generally, kids join gangs to feelRemove gang tattoos and attire and modify
like they belong and have a sense of purpose. Inlanguage away from gang communications.*
fact, kids join gangs for many of the sameCreate a new set of friends and an alternative
reasons that kids join any group, like a soccersupport system, such as boys and girls clubs.*
team or Boy Scouts:* Looking for a sense ofHelp other youths in gangs to create a better life
self-worth, belonging and commitment* Seekingaway from the gang.Other helpful resources
structure and discipline* Companionship* A needinclude:* National Clearinghouse for Families &
for recognition, higher status and acceptance*Youth* Family and Youth Services Bureau* The
Excitement and something to doGangYMCA* Your local youth community centerFrom
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