Homeschooling - Bringing Balance Between Real Life Learning and Curriculum

Homeschoolers can roughly be divided into twoown home, equips them for a career one day -
groups - "unschoolers" and "those who use someeither for an employer or as a self employed
form of curriculum". There is a whole spectrum ofindividual. "The attitudes and attributes that make
homeschoolers in between using differenta good employee are the same attitudes and
philosophies to drive their homeschool vision.attributes that make a good kid." Christine Fields,
No matter where you are in your homeschoolLifeskills for Kids.
journey, a homeschooling mom needs to makeAs you come alongside your children and train
sure that a homeschool curriculum stays in itsthem to do their chores they learn how to
place. If it becomes the master which dictates tocomplete a task they begin. Chores teach our
a parent and thus forces real life learning out, itchildren problem solving, paid chores teach financial
needs to be brought under strict control.management and getting older children to help
Homeschool curriculum's used for Math, Science,younger children helps them to learn patience.
Language and other difficult subjects are oftenMeal preparation is a wonderful platform to teach
very welcome in a homeschooling home wherehome economics which is an asset to both boys
moms, like me, are not strong in those subjects.and girls. As you plan your weeks meals, plan for
This is the beauty of using a curriculum as itsome of your children to be your helpers. As you
relieves a burden from the homeschooling mom'sbake your snacks and treats, draw your
shoulders.youngest children in to help. These casual times of
For subjects that lend themselves to a morebeing together are when you can impart your
relaxed learning style - those like history,own kernels of knowledge to your children. These
geography and life orientation - as much real lifetimes also are valuable for drawing your children
should be used. Using literature to study historyclose to you in amongst the busyness of your
and geography is so much better thandays as a homeschooling mom.
memorizing dry dates and facts. It allows a childRelevant Outings provide a wonderful way for
to "be at home in a single region - seeing theyour children to learn things by seeing and doing.
people at work, the flowers and fruits in theirOutings to historical, geographical and scientific
season, the animal in its habitat..." Charlotte Mason.places of interest can be journalled and
History and geography chronicles, or living books,photographed and notebooked so that you can
"nourish the mind with ideas, and to furnish thekeep records of what your children are learning.
imagination with pictures" Charlotte Mason.Just a warning - overdoing outings can become
Real life has a way of stretching our children totiring to a mom; make sure they are planned
think beyond themselves, to care for the needscarefully.
of others, to serve in their homes and to learn allUltimately a wise homeschool moms plans a
the valuable lifeskills that they need for the restbalance between curriculum and real life learning,
of their lives. Our homes have all that our childrenincorporating good literature, work and service at
need to teach them how to care for themselveshome, outings and homeschool curriculum.
and others. Equipping them in how to work in their