Secrets to Finding the Right School When You're Buying a Home

There are so many things to take intoThough your child may gain a modicum of pride
consideration when you're buying a house. Willfrom attending a high ranking school, this isn't the
your furniture fit? Will your life fit? Is thestuff that memories are built on. One of the most
foundation sound? But if you have children, findingimportant things to children is the quality of the
a house near a school that's a good fit is probablyrelationships in their lives. Above all else, kids want
the single most important consideration you have.to spend time with their friends and families.
Let's do the math: American children spend anProbably the simplest way to give them this is to
average of 6 hours per day, 5 days a week inlive within walking distance of whatever school
school. Once you take the various holidays out ofthey go to. Long commutes whether by bus or
the mix, you're left with approximately 185by car might be the only way to get your child to
instructional days per school year. That's a total ofthe school of your choice but it also creates a
1116 hours a year! Multiply this by 12 years anddisconnect when it comes to their day to day life,
you get a whopping 13,392 instructional hours bythe life of the family and their social relationships.
the time prom rolls around. Let's hope it's aLeadership
positive experience.The quality of the leadership at any school will
Forget everything you know about choosing adefine the quality of the education at that school.
school. The secret to choosing the rightA school principal sets the tone for the staff the
elementary school for your children has very littlestaff take this into the classroom and to your
to do with fancy grading systems, elaboratechild. If you don't care for the principal's
facilities, technology, high grades, high tuition ormethodology, you probably won't like the school.
whatever may be the academic flavor of theSchedule an interview or meeting with the school
month. You can't look at a static report on theprincipal and find out.
Internet and be able to effectively evaluate1. What it means to be a successful student at
whether or not that school has what it takes tothis school
nurture your child's heart and soul.2. What sort of children do well here and what
Things like school spirit; level of emotionalsort of children don't
intelligence amongst the staff; the school's ability3. Does the school favor any particular educational
to bring out the best in all their students and thephilosophies?
level of tolerance for differences (whether they4. What kind of support does the administration
be different learning styles, different abilities orhave? A strong PTA? Vice Principal?
physical differences) aren't found in the numbers.5. What kind of arts, technology and sports
Yet, all of these factors will have a profoundprograms do they offer?
effect on the experience your child will have at6. What sort of stance does the school take
school.toward issues and values that are important to
A few things to look for:you as a parent?
FlexibilityThe Hidden Report Card
Does the school have a one size fits all approach?Take some time to discover what it is that you
Even a gifted child may not excel in everyvalue in a school as a parent. Make a list of
subject. Find out if the school is designed tomust-haves and put them in order of priority.
accommodate differences or if they expectThen go about finding out whether or not the
children to conform to their needs. Chances areschool in question makes the mark on each point.
that your child has a special ability that needs toInvestigate the schools in the area you're planning
be nurtured or that they would benefit fromto buy a home in by finding out what kind of
enriched or flexible programs that give themmarks they get from students, parents and staff.
access to the right tools and information at theVisit the school and observe whether or not the
right developmental stage. When you're lookingstudents are happy. Talk to a few teachers and
for a school, look for flexible programs that will befind out how they feel about the school. An
able to serve children who need help in someeducation isn't just a bunch of marks. It's an
areas and enrichment in others.experience, a collection of memories and a
Proximityfoundation for the future.