Selecting a School For a Special-Needs Child - How Do You Find the Best School?

As a Realtor, I'm sometimes approached byinformation.
parents of kids with special needs. They'll ask:If you're not already involved in such a group, you
"What are the best schools in the area for thisshould be. Most of them have lots of great
situation?" Maybe their child has cerebral palsy. Orresources: Often regular education meetings,
a hearing disorder. Or a speech problem. Or ADHDsupport groups, a referral program to experts
(attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder). Or any ofand professionals in the field, and much more. So,
a hundred other physical or mental issues.join. Then tap into those resources.
One disadvantage Realtors have is that we can'tSecond, ask your child's pediatrician or a specialist
say: "This is a great school" or "This is a terribleyour child goes to for recommendations and
school." The reason: What may be a good schoolsuggestions. The specialists, in particular, will know
for one child may be a poor one for another. So,which schools are more supportive and which
like parrots, most Realtors will refer parents toones are less. It's likely that they've appeared
web sites that rate schools. (And there are somebefore school evaluation boards with the parents
very good sites. Still, that doesn't answer youras the school has considered whether to approve
questions.a 504 Plan or an IEP for children.
So what do you do? Here are four tips.Third, some school PTAs also will have a
First, you may already be a member of acommittee or subcommittee on special education.
non-profit group that deals with that particularThe parents on those committees will tell you
disorder. If so, ask them.I have some experiencewhat the school is like for kids with special needs.
with kids with learning challenges, and kids withFrankly, it's a very good sign if a school's PTA (or
ADHD. One of the national organizations (withother parent group) does have such a committee
hundreds of local chapters) is CHADD--Childrensubcommittee. It indicates a high level of
and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivityawareness already.
Disorder. I'm involved in the local chapter, and weFourth, visit the school and talk to the school's
get similar questions frequently. And, trust me,principal, or a guidance counselor. You'll get a good
the experts and the parents know which schoolsidea of the school's general approach--whether it's
are supportive and which ones aren't. As aopen and supportive... or not--toward children with
Realtor, I may not be able to say that one schoolspecial needs.
is better than another. But as a parent, I know...Those four tips will help you choose a school
and as a parent I'm willing to share thatthat's best for your child.